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The community charity Sheppey Matters has set up a new service to help those feeling lonely.
According to latest figures, 850 Islanders admitted they were feeling isolated before the coronavirus pandemic.
Kelly O’Connell, the latest recruit to join Sheppey Matters, said: “Goodness knows what the reality is now. Tackling loneliness is not easy. We often attach a stigma to admitting we are struggling. We do not wish to trouble anyone and so sadly accept our fate. We put up and shut up.”
But she added: “It is crucial that we raise awareness of the services and support that is available within the community and help people re-connect, form new friendships, and regain a sense of purpose.”
She said everyone experiences a ‘trigger’ event which can lead to social isolation such as ill health, bereavement or moving to a new area. She added: “Although we typically associate this with older age, this pandemic has proved that lockdown loneliness for parents of small children has been also hugely challenging.”
Sheppey Matters wants to contact those who feel lonely to help them use existing services and activities to encourage new social connections.
The charity offers a befriending service and other programmes via its community chef, community gardener, lifestyle coach and arts contacts.
Kelly said: “We tailor them to individual needs. There is no one-size-fits-all approach. A non-driver living at the eastern end of the Island and relying on public transport would feel completely isolated. We recognise transport plays a part.”
Swale Matters has also introduced a ‘garden gate’ service for the over-65s where a team in a travelling minibus calls on the lonely to have a chat and a cuppa “over the garden gate.”
If you, or someone you know, is experiencing loneliness, call Kelly on 07488 355822 or email Kelly@sheppeymatters.org.uk.
